Some people ask, "What makes a great father?" The answer really is simple. Be there for your children. Guide them, nurture them, and always make them feel they are the most important people in your lives. You are not only raising your children, you are raising the future.
Roles for dads have changed. While some dads are still the traditional bread-winners, others have chosen to be the stay-at-home dads, while there are some single dads, and there are part-time dads. Regardless of what "dad" you are, it is important to always be there. No matter what happens in your life, be the positive, strong role-model that your children need. They need to be guided by you, and taught important life skills.
You might think it's monotonous going out and tossing a ball back and forth, or that you are too tired to read them the same book every night. Get out there and do it. Not only are you teaching your child how to catch and throw, you are building a bond, working on communication, team-work, and trust. Constructing those bonds in the early years helps establish a strong foundation for your relationship as your children age and become independent creatures.
When your children become teenagers--and they will, remember they will test you, push your buttons, and push you away. It's all part of growing up and finding their own way. This is where patience is important. Even though they might act like they don't want you around, they do. You just have to evolve, and patiently wait in the wings, swooping in to be there. And again, make them realize they are everything to you. Respect them, and they will respect you. This is an important time to show them your strong work ethics, relationships, etc. These are the years that they need to be shown that even if you are tired, you get up and take care of things.
When your children are adults, again be there. There will be a day when they call you and ask for your advice and guidance. They will remember all that you have done and shown them through the years, and want to do the same for their own children. So happy father's day!
I love you dad, and miss you everyday.
